Thursday, November 20, 2014

5 Techniques to Use When Giving Her A Sensual Massage

Massage is one way to get your woman loosen up prior to a sexual encounter. However, there's more to a sensual rubdown than your standard back rub. Whether you're with your partner, or the Melbourne Asian Escort you see every two months, there are ways to make a massage unforgettable.

There are different techniques, with different pressure from soft to medium to hard. So switch it up, combine techniques, play with pressure, and find what works for her. Here are a few tips to get you started.

  1. Compression. The basic go-to move in massage, this is basically you just leaning on an area, using your weight. Be careful not to crush your babe! This increases the blood flow to the area and helps her loosen up. This feels particularly good on the upper back and butt. 

  2. Kneading. It's similar to kneading dough and is perfect for fleshy areas. Just be careful not to do it too vigorously. Press down with your palms, then push your fingers together so you can grasp the tissue and lift it a bit – not too high, though, or it could hurt. 

  3. Stroking. Long, smooth, and gliding strokes down her back and legs can be deliciously sensual, especially with the right massage oil (try a lavender or sandalwood scent). Use the flat of your palms, so both of you get a tactile treat out of this.

  4. Shiatsu. It's pretty easy to learn this technique. Use your hands or fingertips on an area, apply a bit of pressure, and then rotate slowly. This is best for getting rid of muscle knots, especially in her upper back. If she stiffens in pain, ease off the pressure. 

  5. Friction. This is a bit more advanced compared to the ones mentioned above, so go easy when you do it. The main parts of her body to use this on are her feet and hands. Using your thumbs, rub in small circles, and use the rest of your fingers to keep the foot or hand steady.

These techniques all go together pretty well, and you don't have to use them strictly in that order.

For example, start with shiatsu and kneading on her shoulders and upper back. Then transition to stroking her back, thighs, and calves, then use friction and shiatsu on the soles of her feet. Finish off with compression and some light kneading on her butt, and she'll likely be squirming for more.

It gets even more erotic if you straddle her while stroking her back or kneading her butt. Keep your eye out for her reactions, too. If she starts moaning sexually, or is purring like a kitten, you're doing great.

Remember, though, that a sensual massage isn't really first date material. You can surprise your girlfriend with a full-body rubdown. But if you hook up with a Asian Escorts Melbourne, just stick with a hand massage. It'll still feel good for her, and that could lead to some steamy foreplay.

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